Leadership Development

The Real Cost of Politeness in the Age of AI

The Real Cost of Politeness in the Age of AI

In a world increasingly shaped by AI, a simple question, should we still say โ€œpleaseโ€ and โ€œthank youโ€ to machines? Inspired by a post from Julian Mather, this reflection explores why small acts of civility arenโ€™t just about etiquette, theyโ€™re daily decisions that protect our emotional wellbeing, preserve our shared humanity, and remind us of the power of conscious kindness.

How to get people to do what they promised...without shaming them

How to get people to do what they promised...without shaming them

Picture this. You have your weekly one on one. Your team member promises to complete the inventory report for the project by next week. Next week arrives and itโ€™s not done. What do you say? Is it, โ€˜Why didnโ€™t you complete the report?โ€™  If youโ€™re like most leaders, thatโ€™s exactly what youโ€™d say. Or at least, itโ€™s what you want to say.

Why diverse teams have the worst time

Why diverse teams have the worst time

We know that diverse teams deliver the goods. Science knows it. Academia knows it. And anyone whoโ€™s worked on a diverse team knows it. But what we don'tโ€™ talk enough about, is how it feels to be a part of this diversity. If we are doing our job, showing up with ideas, challenging other team members, and generally pushing ourselves and each other to be brilliant, then diversity feels difficult. There is push back. There is scepticism. There is discomfort. BUT...if we can just hang in there long enough, trust our colleagues enough, and have faith that we all want to make a positive difference, then we can reap the rewards that diversity offers. 

What does gender bias 'in the system' really look like?

What does gender bias 'in the system' really look like?

When it comes to gender equity, the most elusive part of the problem is the invisibility of the real problem โ€“ the second-generation bias that pushes implicit bias underground. This kind of bias is the policy and procedure and the โ€˜way we do things around hereโ€™ that gets woven into the fabric of the organisational culture.

Implicit bias however remains in the shadows. Hard to spot until someone deliberately shines a torch on it. Itโ€™s time to get our torches out and shine a spotlight on the hidden obstacles for women. Those that are stuck in the systems, ingrained in our cultures and waiting to create confusion about whatโ€™s really going on for women at work.

Big news!!! My new book is available for pre-order! (The Gender Penalty)

Big news!!! My new book is available for pre-order! (The Gender Penalty)

๐ˆ๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž! ๐ˆ๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž! ๐ˆ๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐‡๐„๐‘๐„!

I am so thrilled to share my latest book with you ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐†๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐๐ž๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ: ๐“๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐›๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง ๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค.

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๐Ÿ”น ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ท๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ?
๐Ÿ”น ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ?
๐Ÿ”น ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ข ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ?

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐†๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐๐ž๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ is a playbook for navigating career success in a male-dominated environment. If you want to stand out without stepping on toes, get what you want without compromising who you are, and make your mark without becoming someone youโ€™re not, this book is for you. (Plus you can take men with you on the journey. Hooray!)

Packed with easy-to-follow practical strategies, insights, case studies and stories, (and a bunch of bonus resources) this book will help you not only overcome the gender penalties on the field, but also change the game of work for good โ€“ for yourself and other women.