Anneli Blundell - People Whisperer

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Why we need to stop penalizing working mothers

๐–๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐œ๐ค. ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ.

When women have children, they become โ€˜carersโ€™ and their commitment to work is questioned. However, when men have children, they become โ€˜providersโ€™ and their commitment to work is expected. But there are also women without children โ€“ women who canโ€™t have children, donโ€™t yet have children or chose not to have children. These women also face the motherhood penalty, albeit in a different way.

Why are mothers treated differently to fathers? Whatโ€™s the real cost of being a mother? And is it possible to have a successful career and a happy family, all without guilt? Iโ€™m glad you asked. I wondered the same things, then wrote an article about it. Hereโ€™s the link if youโ€™re curious: https://bit.ly/43Bx3yM